The past week was more than a little frustrating. Some family dropped in unannounced and just expected us to have a room for them. Now, when five people are already living in a house and most of the space is occupied, this is no easy feat. But it is doable. When they came by last time, we allowed them to use our living room. But we didn’t offer this time, and it wasn’t a good time for company anyway. Despite people’s misgivings about them coming, they took over our living room and actually holed themselves in it the entire time they were here.
By the third day, we had had enough. And when we overheard them and my brother-in-law talking crap about us through the door (along with some pre-existing issues that I am not going to talk about here), enough was enough. We asked them to leave. What followed was accusations and fights and an actual lecture from my brother-in-law about how we were rude, and even un-Christian, for asking them to leave. Needless to say, the situation was a mess and some of the logistics are still being worked out for if it happens again. Read more »